Tuesday, October 27, 2009

Wisuda Oktober 2009/2010

Wow ini hari wisuda saya nih. Hari yang membahagiakan sekali. Setelah 4 tahun lebih 1 bulan berjuang menjadi seorang mahasiswa. Akhirnya terbayar sudah. Saya lulus! :)

Monday, October 19, 2009

Menabur Benih

Satu-satunya hal yang bertahan sepanjang masa adalah hukum pertanian. Saya harus mengolah tanah, menabur benih, menyianginya, menyiramnya, merawatnya, sampai tumbuh dan siap untuk dipanen.

Benih yang ini berbeda dengan benih-benih yang lain. Benih ini akan tumbuh bergantung dengan tanah dan perawatan yang diberikan. Untuk menyesuaikan dengan tanah yang ada sangat sulit sekali. Saya harus mencari ke semua tempat dimana benih ini sesuai dan tumbuh dengan baik. Terkadang benih dapat tumbuh di berbagai tempat sehingga yang membedakan adalah hasil panen yang kita dapat nantinya.

Ternyata susah sekali untuk bisa menemukan tempat yang sesuai. Semua orang menabur benih. Semua menabur benih. Persaingan ini sangat ketat kawan-kawan! Namun saya yakin, Allah tidak menciptakan benih ini sendirian. Pasti ada pasangan tanah dimana benih ini dapat tumbuh dan berbuah.

Benih yang saya maksud disini adalah skill dan karakter saya. Sedangkan tanah dan perawatan adalah perusahaan dan kompensasi yang diberikan. Semoga saya dan teman-teman dapat cepat-cepat menemukan tanah kita masing-masing. Biar segera kita tumbuh, segera memberi kontribusi kepada semua orang yang kita sayangi. Amin ya robbal alamin.

Wednesday, October 14, 2009

Party All The Time (my life would be eaaasy)

Black Eyed Peas

If if we could party all night
And sleep all day
And throw all of my problems away
My life would be eaaasy
My life would be eaaasy

If we could party all night
And sleep all day
And throw all of my problems away-ay-ay
My life would be eaaasy
My life would be eaaasy

Party all the time
If if we could party party party (heyy)
Make that body down
Ladies don't stop it
Shake it round & round
Feel that bass bumpin
And rock to the beat
This beat is steady bumpin
They jumpin off their feet
Check it out
Ladies got their hands in the air
Shake it like you just don't care
Party it down like yeah (yeah)
Somebody say yeah (yeah)
Check it out
Check it out

Cold party all i like to do
Is turn it back
Whatcha gonna do

Party all night
And sleep all day
And throw all of my problems away
My life would be easy
(oh yeah)
Our lives would be eaa-easy

I don't give a f***
I'm about to get loose
I'm a tech-ch-ch-ch
Gos get drunk of goose
I'm a live my-y-y life
I'm a party all night all day any time
I don't care if it's right
I wanna party party party
Party all day
P-p-p-party party
Party all the way
I wanna party like aretha
We don't need no visa
Party ariza
I don't need juanita

Take me to the club
I need to dance
How bout a dance
Girl i'm a take you to the club
So we could dance

If we could party all night
And sleep all day
And throw all of my problems away
My life would be eaasy
My life would be eaasy

Party all the time [x7]

How to gain confident!

Beberapa hari terakhir, saya menyadari sesuatu yang harus segera saya perbaiki dalam diri saya. Saya tipe orang yang sangat tidak percaya diri. Terlebih lagi dalam hal berbicara di depan banyak orang atau dalam hal yang lainnya. Ketidakpercayadirian ini terkadang membuat saya bertingkah aneh di depan orang-orang hahahaha. Kemudian terpintas dalam benak saya untuk mencoba mencari-cari tips-tips bagaimana meningkatkan kepercayaan terhadap diri sendiri. Berikut ini poin-poin yang menurut saya penting untuk meningkatkan kepercayaan diri.

1. Choose a role model, whether someone close to you, or someone famous. Think of the qualities that the role model displays, whether physical, emotional, moral, and/or spiritual. Work towards acquiring those.

2. Don't think about yourself too much. Try not to focus negatively on how you come across or how others may perceive you. Instead, focus more on making other people happy, and that will build your confidence as other people start enjoying your company.

3. Accept compliments gracefully. Don't roll your eyes and say, "Yeah, right," or shrug it off. Take it to heart and respond positively ("Thank you" and a smile works well).

4. Know that you have important things to say and do. When you feel strongly about something, speak loudly and clearly and make eye contact with people. Be yourself.

5. Take care of yourself. Eat a healthy diet. Don't abuse your body, don't overload it, and don't deny it any of the things it needs. At the same time, don't obsess. Buying all the moisturizers, creams and conditioners will not bring you closer to who you want to be. Those things are only band-aids and make up. Confidence comes from within. Take the time to reflect on your life and do some emotional maintenance. In order to be truly confident, you absolutely must value yourself and understand that your well-being is important.

6. Work out. This is a real fast change. The gym can transform even the last geek. It will help you be who you are, and not be afraid of it. That's the real confidence. Getting enough exercise can boost your confidence amazingly. Not only will it give you more energy throughout the day, but being in good physical shape will make you feel more "worthy" you could say, to talk to others be yourself. (Ini susah banget kayaknya harus mulai fitness ini, hahahah)

7. Stick up for yourself. If people put you down (and not in a good-natured, joking way), then let them know that their opinion of you is not held by everyone—most of all yourself. This may, at first, be hard to do. But once you stick up for yourself a few times, your confidence builds and you get more adept at it.

8. Celebrate your individuality. If you know you've got something special or different, then embrace it; don't hide it! That's diversity! You may wish that you were taller, or shorter, skinnier, stronger, whatever the case may be. But you need to realize that, if you were like everyone else, then you wouldn't be who you are. "What am I?" you ask; the answer's easy: You're a unique individual who is capable of growing and learning.

9. Take action. It is surprising how powerful the simple step of taking an action can be. And the action you take need not be something extravagant or grand. It could be something as simple as tackling a task that you have been procrastinating, such as writing a letter or tidying up that corner of the garage that has been out of control for the last several months. It could also be something as interesting as taking a class in yoga, art, interior design, anything that interests you that you haven't done yet. Whether large or small, action brings with it exhilaration, enthusiasm, and the confidence that other things can be done as well.

10. Improve your posture. Don't slouch or slump your shoulders; nothing says "I lack confidence" more than a person who appears like they're trying to hide from the world. Make sure that your back is straight, your shoulders are square, and your chest is puffed out slightly (but stay loose, otherwise you'll appear stiff and uptight). Keep your chin up and your eyes forward rather than looking at the ground.

11. Make a conscious effort to smile often. A smile makes you appear warm, honest, friendly, and confident. You can also just relax your facial muscles entirely, which will make you appear calm and relaxed. Observe yourself in a mirror to make sure that you don't have a tense or nervous facial expression, because if you do others will believe you to be sad, angry, or uncomfortable.

12. Make eye contact with others, especially when engaging in conversation. Gaze into the other person's eyes as you talk to make yourself seem interested, calm, and confident. Avoiding eye contact makes you appear shy and submissive, while directly staring for too long may make you appear angry or scared. So the best advice is to gaze into a person's eyes as you converse with them while occasionally shifting your gaze or looking around.

13. Act confident, even if you don't truly feel it. After a while, it will come naturally, and you will feel confident in yourself! Also, learn to not care what others think of you. If you let what people say to you bring you down, you will never be happy. Only care about how you feel about yourself, and don't always take what people say at face value, because they may be jealous of you and are intending to put you down. Don't let them stop your progress, but stand up for yourself while acting calmly!

So, what are we waiting for! lets be confident today!

sumber : WikiHow

Saturday, October 03, 2009

LSP05 tuntas OKTOBER09

Alhamdulillah para asisten lsp 05 tuntas oktober 09 hore! kita memang mangstab. hahahaha

*sok-sokan. hihihi